How many 'if only' moments do we get? If only I had not said that.
If only I had not gone there.
If only I had made a better choice.
If only I had called them.
If only I had made the effort to see them one last time.
If only.......
Once we have said it..... it is spoken.
Once we have done it.....it is done.
Can we take back the words, undo the deed? No.