Are you one of those people who would rather have folks come visit you or you travel to visit them? I certainly am! I know part of my 'problem' is that I am a work addict and if people are visiting me, I can get up earlier than them and stay up later to complete tasks.
For the same reason, going away on vacation has little appeal because I think of how far behind I will be when I return home. Do I like being this way? Nope! How about you? Would you rather go away and relax and not stress about getting behind in your work? Or do you secretly work behind the 'scenes' while you have friends visiting?
When I was asked the question "If you took a dream vacation in reverse, who is the one person you would want to come to you and why?" I would have to say very loud and clear: "My family." I have spent most of my adult life living far away from family and it is a major regret of mine. How I would love to live near them and enjoy holidays and summer fun with them. It is time lost and can never be regained.