Do you have secrets that you plan to take to the grave? Are there things in your past that you want to bury and hope no one ever finds out about them?
Everyone has secrets. My mother-in-law had an undisclosed recipe for Rum Balls that she swore she would take with her when she died. And that she did. No one ever figured out her secret ingredient. But what good did it do for her not to share it so we could continue to enjoy her wonderful dessert?