Do Dogs Know When it is Time to Say Goodbye?

No matter how much we prepare ourselves for the inevitable, it is extremely difficult to say good-bye to our furry friends. Even more difficult is making the decision as to when - do we wait a month, a week, or does it have to be today?

Gunner's time was approaching and I prayed that he would let me know when it was time. He did. 

Around eight in the evening, he started to pace and then stand in a corner for a few minutes. He did this all night and I stayed up with him. The first vet appointment available was at three in the afternoon. As much as his human daddy wanted to be there his schedule didn't permit; I had to go alone. 

Gunner's doctor took one look at him and then back at me. There was no need for an examination. "I'll give Gunner a shot that is incredibly fast-acting. He will be gone in a matter of seconds but you can hold him as long as you want to stay with him." I did. 

After ten minutes the doc came back into the room. "It's amazing, Doctor. Gunner is still with me." He was still in my arms looking up at me. Gently the doctor explained that he had crossed the rainbow bridge immediately but his eyes would remain open. 

I had spent those ten minutes talking to Gunner. I told him what a good dog he was and how much we love him and would miss him. I assured him I would take care of his little life partner, Star. I had no idea he had been gone the whole time. 

That night, little Star looked for him. In the middle of the night, I found her under my bed, crying. My heart broke all over again. Within two days she was back to her normal self which surprised, yet pleased me. 

Belated Christmas

We had scheduled our Christmas trip to see the kids a couple of times but the ferries were not running due to extreme weather. The roads were closed. Ferries sat in the dock. Everyone waited until life would resume.

Even though it was the second week in January, we were finally able to make the Christmas trip to visit the grands. For them, it was exceptionally exciting - Christmas all over again. 

Even climbing a rock wall, 
she had to wear her NEW HIGH heels

Smallest Snowman on record

A new year with new challenges and new victories. May this year bring you many joys and few sorrows. I enjoy our monthly Fly On The Wall posts giving us a peek into your world.

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