Maybe you have monthly, weekly, daily even half-daily lists. When crossing tasks off those lists, it can bring you great pleasure. The tricky part is to be flexible and spontaneous when something fun or necessary takes priority and totally messes with your lists! To do this without getting flustered is an art, creativity at its best. It takes practice and a lot of patience.
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I have lived with the world's greatest procrastinator for the past 40 plus years. I may have learned a thing or two about coping with HIS problem. If you happen to be one of those lucky people who live with one -- hang on -- here are some synonyms for procrastinator and they aren't pretty:
If I called my hubby any one of those names, I would be in serious jeopardy of dirty looks or worse. Hey, I didn't write the dictionary!
My question to you is this: Who is the most stressed? The procrastinator or the other person? I have learned not to care if he doesn't get done what he would like to do -- that's his problem.