How important is your profile picture? There are many people who post profile pictures that are not pictures of themselves at all. You may choose to do this for various reasons. Some people may be more interested in sharing their brand instead of a photo of themselves. Some may want to post a family picture (which tells a story about who they are). Some may post a picture of their furry friend.
What does someone see when they look at your profile picture? No matter how often we may say that we don't judge a book by the cover, it is human nature to do just that.
Be careful not to judge too quickly
If we see someone in tattered clothes staggering down the street, we may jump to the conclusion that he is a good-for-nothing drunk. In reality, he may be someone who was in business and lost everything, even his family. Or we may see an executive wearing expensive clothes, driving a new car and think they have it all together. What we may not realize is that he could be one step away from losing it all. For a heart-warming shocking story that is an example of this, please check out what happened when I paid for a woman's coffee at the drive-through window. It was published in the recent release by Chicken Soup for the Soul, Random Acts of Kindness.
Even though we may try not to prejudge people before we speak to them, we are all a little guilty of it.
On my talk show, Never Ever Give Up Hope. I interview guests who have remarkable stories of how they conquered overwhelming obstacles and achieved success. I want to be sure each guest reflects a positive image. This is the first thing people see on the internet. They see it before they hear a story or read a bio. It must show confidence and strength.
Here are some tips I have given to my guests and certainly can be used wherever you post your profile picture.
1. The best profile picture is of your head and shoulders only -- not full body. The closer the picture of your face, the better to show that you are genuine, honest, and really do want to help others.
2. Look INTO the camera - not off in the distance or up in the air. Give eye contact. Believe it or not, this is extremely important.
4. Smile with teeth. This is welcoming and
shows warmth.
5. Wear dark-colored clothes with lighter accents. Don't wear busy prints - solid colors work best. Don't wear light colors that may blend you into the background. Don't wear big bulky jewelry as that is where the eye will be drawn to and your face will be secondary.
Profile pictures say a lot about us -- you know what 'they' say about first impressions. Put your best face forward!
Great advice, Carol, I'll take it!
ReplyDeleteBlessings!
It really does make a difference Martha
DeleteThank you for the smiles!
ReplyDeleteGlad you enjoyed it
DeleteGreat tips, Carol. I often wonder why people put pictures of their pets and everything but their faces on their Facebook profile pages. After all, it's called FACE book. 😁
ReplyDeleteExcellent point Flo
DeleteEven if it is not a picture of themselves, we still make a judgement on who and what they are all about.
ReplyDeleteAssume a funny picture is from a funny person.
Now what about some people posting pictures of their children and others refusing to let anyone post a picture of their child. Pride and Fear?
OMG I love the photo examples you used! Great tips, now I have to check out my profile!
ReplyDeleteGood. I'm glad you appreciated them.
DeleteYou are absolutely right about eye contact! And your other tips make sense, too. I will keep in mind the next time I am creating a new profile pic.
ReplyDeleteGlad you can use the tips
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